Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Thanksgiving Weekend 2010 Part 2

We worked hard and played hard this weekend. Friday morning we got up and worked on our patio extensions. We really wanted to get some pavers laid, but there was still a lot of prep work to be done. P1040373 We were hard at work when the Green's called to ask if we wanted to go shooting. Of course we wanted to, but we knew this was our only day to really get work done. So we told them of our dilemma and they offered to come and help! Our heroes! They helped us so much--in just a few hours we actually laid some brick!P1040374Then we went shooting!  The girls really had a fun time. And they are pretty good shots!

Here is a fun shot of Noah. I think it is perfect depiction of boys will be boys! And then a fun shot I took of the shadows we were casting.boys will be boys shadowOn Saturday, the girls went to "Beauty and the Beast" while Kelly and I attended two baptisms. It truly was a great weekend.

I am thankful for health and strength-for me and my family. We have worked hard and played hard this holiday weekend and none of it would have been possible without the blessing of health.

Thanksgiving Weekend 2010

The very best part of our holiday was having everyone together!together

Our thanksgiving holiday really isn't just a day, it is a weekend. It has been that way for a long time now. This year that stayed the same, but we did have a pretty big change. We spent Thanksgiving day here at home--without other family around. There has been so much stress in the familial relationships, I just couldn't see adding the holiday stress that always occurs to the pile of "complaints". So we chose to stay home. And it worked out well for us. I didn't spend days with regrets and hurt feelings. It was nice!

marcusWe invited the Alegrezza's over to share our turkey dinner, owenwith all of our favorite trimmings. They brought some of their traditional food too. Norma has her two grandson's Marcus and Owen living with her right now, her husband is in Afghanistan and their family is under a lot of stress with the circumstances. Our invitation helped them have a good day and it definitely helped us! Valerie and Steve came as well.

acquireAfter dinner, Kelly talked them into a game of Acquire--so even that tradition was in place! We had fun preparing the food and the table. It felt so good to share our blessings with others and help them feel of the holiday spirit. They wanted to be here, they were excited to come and that felt wonderful.

table setting I should have taken some pictures of our feast! But here is a picture of the table and the cornucopia's we made.

And then here is a picture of Kelsey getting some left over's later that night. YUM!P1040366

She is a goof!

Monday, November 22, 2010

Thankful day 22

day 22 I am thankful for roses trying to bloom in November....(insert tire screech sound)...

NOT! (I took this picture today-honestly)

I am truly thankful for prayer. day 22a When I read about Jesus' visit to the Nephites and realize in the limited time he had that he chose to spend that valuable time teaching them and showing them the power of prayer, it strengthens my own testimony of prayer.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

El Tour 2010

They worked hard, training on the bike trainer at night and then early morning rides on Saturday's. And the day is finally here! It was so exciting to arrive at the start. First you heard the music, then you see the big balloon arch marking the start line. As we crossed the street, you see what looks like an endless mass of bikers. So much energy in the air as they wait to to get going.start line Here is how we will distinguish them from all of the other riders! Love it.distinguised ridersKelly and Maryn left to make their way to the back of the pack and Kelsey and I found the perfect place to get a picture of them as they start their 66 mile ride. It was so thrilling!massive pack maryn startAfter they got on the road, Kelsey and I made our way to volunteer at the rest station in Rancho Vistoso. It is so fun to help the riders and visit with them. So many of them have such interesting stories about where they are from and why they are riding. We were able to give some encouragement to Kelly and Maryn when they came by too.

As soon as we could get away, Kelsey and I then headed downtown to greet them at the finish line! Once again the excitement was tangible. We listened to music and cheered the riders coming in as we waited to see our favorite two riders! Finally, here they are!!finish I am thankful for dreams and goals, the idea, no the reality, that you can work hard to better yourself--in a variety of ways. I am thankful for the things you learn along the way.

I am thankful for the sense of accomplishment when you reach the finish line.

And I am thankful to support any such endeavors!

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Thankful day 18

day 18 One week from today my parents are finished with their mission! Today starts the week-long countdown of all of the "lasts". Last Thursday, last Friday lunch, last weekend etc. We have had a unique opportunity to have them in our home for the last eighteen months while they served. I am thankful we were in a position to be a part of it all.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Sunset

P1040219 I took these pictures as I sat outside reading my scriptures. I love the sunsets here. I don't love cholla cactus all that much but I thought the sun made them look so beautiful.P1040218

I love to feel peace. I felt that in this moment.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Thankful Day 13

Tuesday, for our class activity we baked bread for the Sacrament and wrote thank you cards to the Young Men for their service. We wanted them to know that we appreciate their respect and reverence for this ordinance that is so important to us. The activity turned out great and so did the bread.day 13 "He instituted the sacrament as a reminder of His great atoning sacrifice. He was arrested and condemned on spurious charges, convicted to satisfy a mob, and sentenced to die on Calvary’s cross. He gave His life to atone for the sins of all mankind. His was a great vicarious gift in behalf of all who would ever live upon the earth."

Friday, November 12, 2010

Thankful Day 12

My little corner of the world. That is what my husband calls it. I am embarrassed to show it so messy, but honestly this is usually how it looks most of the time. Don't judge me! It does get cleaned up. I always put stuff away when I am done with a project, it is just that I usually have more than one going on. I use this space in every aspect of my life-personal, family, friends and for my calling. All the things I love, for the people I love. I am so grateful to have this space and yes, I know I am spoiled. Thanks Kelly! Here are some close up shots that really tell the story. There is scrapbooking, reading, lists, card making, gift giving, shoving Kelly off of his side of the desk. And then there is the computer side--digi-scrap, Photoshop, bills, journaling, more lists, piles of "to do's", camera and phone. day 12

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In reading today, it was a bit harder to find something I learned. As I sat pondering, I re-read several times the principles that Jesus taught. I didn't learn anything new but I got some things sorted out better in my mind and I think that counts. Jesus mentions the gate and the way that leads to life as being strait and narrow, and that the way to the world is just the opposite broad and wide, making it hard to find the "right" way. He says there are few that find it. He also talks about beams and motes, the golden rule, judging, a tree's fruit, foundations and asking and as I wrote my notes I separated them as individual principles. I think sometimes we see so many things that way, so many things we have to do to be worthy. Then I read Elder Hollands talk from conference and sat and pondered about what I learned today. That was when I saw all those individual principles become descriptions of the same one, or maybe two. I thought of this same scene in the "old world" instead of the new one, and Jesus states that the first great commandment is to love God, then the second is to love others. Those seem like two, except that when we love others we show our love to God, so that is how they become one. With that thought, I saw how the foundation built upon Jesus, the wise man, is loving God and wanting to do His will, that is the only thing that fits through the narrow gate. If we try to take other "loves" we don't fit through. His will is that we love others, serve them and help each other stay on that narrow path back to Him. When God is first and others are second, we are simply more obedient, less likely to wander off the path.

It puts everything in the proper perspective, including judging others. Jesus taught that we have to be careful in how we judge others, because whatever measure we use is the same measure we will be judged by. Elder Holland stated that each one of us is loved and important to our Heavenly Father. I am important. I am worth it-the plan of salvation. If that is true, than those around me are worth it as well. Judging can be a selfish behavior if we are putting ourselves first, and most of the time it is. That is the beam and the mote kind of judging. But there is also the "fruit of the tree" and the sheep's clothing kind of judging. I have felt the difference. When I am I am motivated by love-the first and second commandment, not concerned about making myself appear better, I can judge the "fruit" of the tree and steer clear of wolves. But talk about a narrow path! The key is to remember the worth of every soul. That kind of judging leads to asking God to direct you on how to help, how to lift, how to give His gift of love. You can know by your own fruits if you are on the right path. The love of God and others will motivate to be better and do better. As Elder Holland stated, more "kind and charitable"--not concerned about beams and motes.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Day 7

I am thankful for 25+ years.day 7

My thoughts don't come from my reading today, still formulating those, but from lingering thoughts from a verse I read a few days ago.

The verse tried to explain that the record contained couldn't record all that transpired among the people in 25 years. I guess it was the similar time period, but I tried to imagine how to record the “great and marvelous things” that become a life shared. You can record the experiences- the events, coming and goings etc. But, so many of the real, “great and marvelous things” are small moments-tender feelings, insight, growth. How do you record the “hundredth part” or what was “done”? How do you record feelings, changed hearts and bonds forged to last forever? For instance, how do I describe how I felt hearing the words, “because you are worth it” when Kelly found a way to come home…for just 24 hours?

Saturday, November 6, 2010

Thankful Day 6

day 6 I am grateful for this country, founded on the eternal principle of agency.  The battle for freedom has been waged countless times, beginning in the premortal world. Pride and the hunger for power are freedom's enemies. But Satan can be bound. Bound by righteousness. One description I read today of those that are able to withstand Satan's temptations are firm, steadfast and willing with all diligence to keep the commandments. I think the key words there are willing and diligence. I need to be firm and steadfast in being willing and diligent.

Friday, November 5, 2010

Multi-tasking

I just had a funny thought.

Right now I am cleaning my oven, doing dishes, cleaning my front door, working on the invitations for Young Women in Excellence (ywie) and enjoying some entertainment! What does that really translate too? The self-clean oven is doing its job, the dishwasher is swishing away, the bug man is here brushing out the cob webs and I am using my corner punch, listening to my playlist run on the computer.

Oh and I just scanned this in a few minutes ago...

gen of love

Thankful Day 5

Miracles Happen.day 5a

Yesterday, Mariah texted this to her mom: "Tender mercies and miracles are still being enjoyed in this day and age. I am so grateful for all of our blessings and our Heavenly Father's guiding hand in our lives." Lynneah came out of surgery doing great. There is still a long recovery, but she truly is a miracle. They have been watched over from the very beginning of this. As I have been watching this miracle unfold in their lives it has made my heart swell with gratitude for a loving Heavenly Father. I cried as I prayed last night just because I am so grateful to know that He is really in the Heavens and more importantly that He is involved in our lives. And grateful for His Son, who performs a miracle every time we seek His divine gift

Then as I read this verse this morning-3 Nephi 5:4-I thought of the Atonement again. I wrote that the fact that they could teach those who had hurt them so badly and then let them go free is quite a testimony to their belief in the Savior and the power of the Atonement. I thought of the hurts that I have felt and I know that if they can forgive those robbers, I can forgive others too and myself. I also thought of Kelly and his service as the bishop and how many times he has borne his testimony of the power of the atonement. What a blessing to be able to be such an intimate part of that process.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Thankful Day 4

day 4 In my reading I wrote down: "Enemies" referred to in the scriptures can be physical and spiritual. We are saved from everlasting destruction through the Grace of Jesus Christ and our humility to accept that gift and repent of our sins.

That made me think of some lyrics from one of my favorite 100 songs right now--I love music.

Sometimes I feel as cold as steel
And broken like I'm never going to heal
I see a light
A little grace, a little faith unfurled
Hello world
All the empty disappears
I remember why I'm here
Just surrender and believe
I fall down on my knees
Oh hello world

I love music for how it makes you feel, but my favorite thing is that sometimes a song can say what your heart feels and you don't have the words for. This song says that, it ends with faith and a prayer to heaven for thanks that all is well. This world is a blessing and we are here for a purpose, but thank goodness this is not the end of the story or the whole picture. Sometimes this world is so cold, lonely, and just plain hard. The peace that comes from the Savior is truly the only thing that can break through the negative things that this world sometimes offers. I am grateful that there are moments where we can feel peace, true happiness and the sense of what life is all about. And I LOVE that there will be time after this life for more healing, no more tears or sorrows just an eternal "all is well".

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Thankful-Day 2

The Nephites surely did need a prophet. With signs appearing in the skies Satan is still able to get many to believe that it was somehow manmade or....what could possibly be said to make you disbelieve? I can't help but wonder. But more importantly, what does their example teach me? I believe a prophet and apostles walk the earth today, but I think I may take that knowledge for granted. I want to make my actions in following the prophets more consistent with the love I feel for them. I want to be a better hearkener--is that a word?

Here is something I read from an apostle today-one of my favorites. Neal A Maxwell said that "temple work is not an escape from the world but a reinforcing of our need to better the world while preparing ourselves for another and far better world. Thus, being in the Lord's house can help us to be different from the world in order to make more difference in the world." day 2

Maybe it was being in the mindset of the elections, but that statement really struck me. I often refer to the temple as an escape from the world and have heard that same feeling from many others. I am going to try to follow that council and look at the temple and the work that is done there in a different light. I will use that to inspire to me to make the world around me just a little bit better.

Thankful--Day 3

I miss my hubby and this is my lifeline. I am not endorsing verizon, but grateful for this modern way of communicating! day 3Today in my reading I wrote down these things:

  • We must have a foundation and work to keep that firm. Lachoneus didn't doubt or fear for one second. He was just appalled, and rightly so, at the gall of Giddianhi. He was able to do that because of a rock solid foundation that would not fail.
  • There is a way to avoid being deceived
  • This chapter is a great example of "Pray like it all depends on God and then work like it all depends on you" or (something like that).
  • How would it be to choose a leader because of he had the spirit of prophecy? Gidgiddoni was chosen to be the chief captain of the army for that reason.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Thankful

Day 1--I am thankful for daughters who are good examples and who teach me. I talked to Kelsey today and she told me she was starting something new in her journal. Everyday she was going to write about something she learned in the scriptures, blessings that she used during the day and something that she was thankful for. What great things to focus on! I am going to do the same thing and add one more thing looking for ways that the Holy Ghost prompted me. My ultimate goal would be that I could list several examples in each category...but I doubt I will be able to here at the start. But that will come with the practice of looking for it. I know I can find at least one thing to be thankful for each day, and I will add the others as I can.

day 1 Today as I read in 3 Nephi, I couldn't believe how quickly then Nephites forgot the signs of Christ's' birth, only 15 years and they were ready to listen to Satan and make up reasons as to why those signs had appeared. I felt sorry for them, disappointed...and a little judgmental. Then I began to think of things that have happened in my life and how quick I have been to forget--prayers that were answered, promises I made and impressions that I meant to follow. Good thing the Nephites are there to remind me!